As confusion is avoided by remaining in search of the clarity of conceptual understanding, one is led directly into further heartbreak, loss, and failure - to inevitably unravel what relaxing into confusion is always ready to reveal.
If constant heartbreak, loss, and failure doesn't sound like the smoothest path available to you, then it's time to demonstrate your deepest level of sincerity and face the experience of confusion with the innocence and curiosity of an open heart.
Once confusion arises, all one has to do is relax into it, like a seed that has finally found a home in the ground, beginning to sprout roots on a journey of growth only leading one upward.
Just like when tending to a garden, seeds don't usually need too much coaxing once they are planted in place, nor do flowers require specific rules to follow, or endless streams of ideas in order to grow. All they need is the gentle care and loving attention from those who are inspired to support their growth, so all the elements may come together to express the uniqueness and wondrous beauty of life's eternal Source.
If you wish to assist yourself or others when awakening into spiritual maturity, discard every idea, belief, or concept that only serves to feed the hungry overthinking mind, and dare to love each and every heart - just as it is. Remember, while a seed may grow impatient in the blossoming process, the sun always knows there is nothing to rush.